Ready, Set, Dash! :
I really like the dash metaphor because I believe
it's an accurate description of the race of life.
There are many people out there who teach that life
is marathon and not a sprint. Yet, think about it
for a moment. A marathon is nothing but a very long
sprint. World class marathoners run at an average
speed of about 13 miles per hour. That is about
four times the average person's walking speed. Over
the course of 26 miles, a top marathoner will
average about 5 minutes per mile. That's fast!
Most people (myself included) couldn't run one mile
in 5 minutes, nevertheless 26 of them in a row.
My point is simply that marathoners are not out for
a jog in the park; they are running. In the same
way, you and I can't stroll to our goals. We have
to sprint towards them. This is the case even when
our goals seem miles away.
Think about it from the perspective of running a
marathon. The distance to the finish line is set in
stone. The only variable is how fast you get there.
The faster you run, the less time you spend on the
track. Likewise, the slower you run, the more time
you will spend running. And remember, time is the
one thing that no one has enough of.
I don't know about you but I want to reach my goals
as quickly as possible. This is for three reasons.
First of all, I want to spend as much time as
possible enjoying the fruits of my success. Second,
the faster I complete my current goals, the sooner I
can get to complete my next set of goals. Finally,
I don't know how much time I have left on this
planet and I'd hate to die with many of my dreams
unfulfilled.
What about you? Would you like to spend the next 20
years working to achieve a goal that could have been
completed in 5 years? Think of the extra 15 years
that you could have been enjoying yourself or moving
on to the next goal had you only run a little
faster. And this assumes that you actually live
that long, which is by no means guaranteed. You
could get hit by bus, become a victim of violent
crime or come down with an incurable disease. If
you don't believe me, just open up your local
newspaper and you'll see dozens of stories about
people just like you who had their dashes tragically
cut short.
Ready, Set, Dash! (Part II)
Now, please understand that my purpose here is not
to depress you, but rather impress upon you the
importance of picking up the pace. You don't know
how much time you have left, so you must try to
reach the finish line as fast as possible. This
means that you must run towards your goals as fast
as you can.
And please note the emphasis on the word "you." I'm
not suggesting that you have to turn in a world
class time in your dash. I'm simply suggesting that
you shoot for a personal best. Do the best you can
and don't get distracted by others. Don't become
discouraged because your brother, college roommate
or co-worker was able to, say, buy their first home
in two years. We're all different.
Likewise, don't get complacent because your circle
of friends and family are running slowly (or jogging
in place). This is particularly dangerous because
we often use the shortcomings of our peers as an
excuse for not giving our best efforts. We say
things like, "Well, no one else in my family ever
graduated from college in four years, so why should
I expect to?" or "All of my co-workers are late in
turning in their reports, so why should I wear
myself out trying to meet the boss' deadline?"
This is the wrong attitude to take. You're not
responsible for your family members or co-workers.
You're only responsible for how fast you run the
race. Therefore, run to the best of your ability.
And finally (and this should go without saying), run
the entire race. Some people attempt to get to the
finish line faster by taking shortcuts. As you
know, I was one of these people. My "shortcut" cost
me three years of my life away from my family and
loved ones. Don't make this mistake. Run the
entire course; even the uphill parts. Sure, it
won't always be easy or fun but in the end, you'll
finish faster and you'll be much happier with
yourself as a result.
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